“My Son Will Not Come Back”: A Father’s Grief Amid Bengaluru Stampede Tragedy

 

Devraj, the father of one of the deceased in the Bengaluru stampede on June 4,
Devraj, the father of one of the deceased in the Bengaluru stampede on June 4,

On June 4, what was supposed to be a day of celebration in Bengaluru turned into a night of grief and irreversible loss. The city had gathered to mark Royal Challengers Bengaluru's maiden IPL title win—a moment of joy that spiraled into chaos, leaving 11 people dead and over 50 injured in a stampede outside the iconic M Chinnaswamy Stadium. Among the victims was Manoj, the son of Devraj, who now grapples with a loss no parent should ever have to endure.

“I have been given a cheque of ₹25 lakhs, but my son will not come back,” Devraj said in a public statement that struck a chord across the country. His voice, tinged with anguish and quiet strength, reflected the agony of a father whose world had collapsed in the blink of an eye.

Devraj was clear—he would not use the compensation for himself. “I will put it in the account of my daughter and her mother and keep the money for her future,” he said, turning his grief into a pledge of protection for the family his son left behind. His words remind us that while financial aid can support the living, it can never fill the void left by the departed.

The tragedy unfolded when a crowd many times the stadium’s 35,000 capacity—estimated between 2 to 3 lakh people—descended on the area to witness RCB’s victory parade. The excitement quickly turned into a crush as the crowd surged, and barriers meant to control movement gave way under pressure. Inadequate crowd control and poor planning have since been widely criticized, with the event drawing ire from citizens and political opposition alike.

Karnataka Chief Minister Siddaramaiah acknowledged the state’s failure to anticipate the crowd’s scale and has ordered an inquiry into the matter. A retired High Court judge, Justice John Michael D'Cunha, has been appointed to head a one-man commission to investigate the incident. The government has also announced a revised compensation package—raising the previous ₹10 lakh to ₹25 lakh for each bereaved family.

“We hope that families who have lost loved ones will not suffer further due to financial problems,” the Chief Minister stated. But for grieving parents like Devraj, no amount of monetary relief can replace the son he lost that day.

Adding to the state’s compensation, the Royal Challengers Bengaluru franchise announced ₹10 lakh for each victim’s family and committed to creating a support fund for the injured. These gestures, while noble in intent, come in the shadow of a celebration that should have been remembered for sporting glory, not human tragedy.

The political fallout has been swift and intense. The opposition BJP has accused the Congress-led government of negligence, demanding resignations and terming the incident a “government-sponsored murder.” Protests erupted at the Vidhana Soudha, with leaders denouncing the administration’s decision to proceed with the event despite early warnings about crowd control issues.

But amid the clamor for political accountability and structural inquiry, it is the personal stories—like Devraj’s—that must not be lost in the noise.

This tragedy is not just a statistic. It's not just “11 dead” and “56 injured.” It is 11 families forever changed. Children left without parents. Parents left without children. Young dreams extinguished in an instant.

Devraj’s decision to channel his grief into future security for his daughter and wife is both heartbreaking and inspiring. It is a powerful reminder that resilience in the face of trauma isn’t always loud—it is quiet, steadfast, and often rooted in love.

As Bengaluru continues to reel from the aftermath of this disaster, one hopes that lessons will be learned—not just in policy and crowd management, but in empathy and accountability. Celebrations can wait. Human lives cannot.

Let this tragedy not become just another headline to be forgotten. Let us remember Manoj. Let us remember the 10 others. And let us ensure that the system does not fail another family like Devraj’s again.


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